lOI4

= LOI4 : How can people say NO and be themselves = = =

= = = Alejandro Bastidas 14/5/12 = = = = Answer: Learning to control the frustration and having clear that: Consuming alcohol and drugs is bad in any ways possible, also that you have control your life and personality, not other people, also choose your friends and your crew well, someone who offers you drugs or alcohol is not your friend. Most people say yes because they want to be popular, but you shall say no because you have to be satisfied with yourself, not wanting to be like others, why is popularity so important for some people? because they want to be more noticed and to hang out with people who pretend to be cool. That is why people think that everything popular people say and do is good, but those people are just losers, failures that think they are the best. So you shall not worry about being popular or not popular, their words aren't wise, they are dumb, the wise words are the ones that you say, wise is to say no and take a stand, you can also be popular and known by everyone as the one who said no or the brave guy, that is popularity, good popularity. Having fear is bad you have to feel safe and secure. You can say no by thinking in all your talents and skills, in that way you would realize that you don't need to be like others. =